Update runDev task for Gradle 7.1 deprecations

also no longer disable watchdog by default, instead require `disableWatchdog` Gradle property to be set

patches/server/0224-Use-asynchronous-Log4j-2-loggers.patch

@@ -5,10 +5,10 @@ Subject: [PATCH] Use asynchronous Log4j 2 loggers
 
 
 diff --git a/build.gradle.kts b/build.gradle.kts
-index 755d0472684579272a63a481d7504ff2dae69c2d..39ae4cc76438c40e007bfe5e8ace7cbaee66d3b8 100644
+index 03c157bb563b6c7b89e56e4c8e9c31b221b17bf9..ef743e289163cd7dc73a01f0aae784cb6c11d970 100644
 --- a/build.gradle.kts
 +++ b/build.gradle.kts
-@@ -42,6 +42,7 @@ dependencies {
+@@ -41,6 +41,7 @@ dependencies {
      }
      runtimeOnly("org.xerial:sqlite-jdbc:3.34.0")
      runtimeOnly("mysql:mysql-connector-java:8.0.23") // Paper