This should fix OSX/BSD issues with not noticing transfer information
files with kqueue. Now that threads are used, the thread can manage the
transfer slot allocation and deallocation by itself; much cleaner.
Check first if a transfer needs to be done, using the location log only
(for speed), and avoid occupying a slot if not. Always write a transfer
info file, and keep it open throughout the tranfer process.
Now transfers to remotes seem reliable.
There's still a bug; if the child updates its transfer info file,
then the data from it will superscede the TransferInfo, losing the
info that we should wait on this child.
