improve transfer stages for some commands

move --to, copy --to, mirror --to: When concurrency is enabled, run cleanup
actions in separate job pool from uploads.

transferStages was confusingly named, it's only useful when doing downloads
as then the verify actions can be run concurrently with other downloads.
For commands that upload, there will be more concurrency from running
cleanup actions in a separate job pool.

As for sync, I left it using downloadStages although that's not optimal
for the part of a sync that uploads. Perhaps it should use the union of
both?

Command/Sync.hs

@@ -194,7 +194,7 @@ instance DeferredParseClass SyncOptions where
 seek :: SyncOptions -> CommandSeek
 seek o = do
 	prepMerge
-	startConcurrency transferStages (seek' o)
+	startConcurrency downloadStages (seek' o)
 	
 seek' :: SyncOptions -> CommandSeek
 seek' o = do