* docs: add references to app.whenReady() in isReady
* refactor: prefer app.whenReady()
In the docs, specs, and lib, replace instances of `app.once('ready')`
(seen occasionally) and `app.on('ready')` (extremely common) with
`app.whenReady()`.
It's better to encourage users to use whenReady():
1. it handles the edge case of registering for 'ready' after it's fired
2. it avoids the minor wart of leaving an active listener alive for
an event that wll never fire again
Unify the behavior between default app and packaged apps:
- create default application menu unless the app has one
- default window-all-closed handling unless the app handles the event
