chore: bump node to v12.16.1 (master) (#22168)

* chore: bump node in DEPS to v12.16.0

* Fixup asar support setup patch

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/30862

* Fixup InternalCallbackScope patch

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/30236

* Fixup GN buildfiles patch

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/30755

* Fixup low-level hooks patch

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/30466

* Fixup globals require patch

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/31643

* Fixup process stream patch

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/30862

* Fixup js2c modification patch

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/30755

* Fixup internal fs override patch

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/30610

* Fixup context-aware warn patch

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/30336

* Fixup Node.js with ltcg config

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/29388

* Fixup oaepLabel patch

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/30917

* Remove redundant ESM test patch

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/30997

* Remove redundant cli flag patch

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/30466

* Update filenames.json

* Remove macro generation in GN build files

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/30755

* Fix some compilation errors upstream

* Add uvwasi to deps

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/30258

* Fix BoringSSL incompatibilities

* Fixup linked module patch

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/30274

* Add missing sources to GN uv build

https://github.com/libuv/libuv/pull/2347

* Patch some uvwasi incompatibilities

* chore: bump Node.js to v12.6.1

* Remove mark_arraybuffer_as_untransferable.patch

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/30549

* Fix uvwasi build failure on win

* Fixup --perf-prof cli option error

* Fixup early cjs module loading

* fix: initialize diagnostics properly

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/30025

* Disable new esm syntax specs

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/30219

* Fixup v8 weakref hook spec

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/29874

* Fix async context timer issue

* Disable monkey-patch-main spec

It relies on https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/29777, and we don't
override prepareStackTrace.

* Disable new tls specs

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/23188

We don't support much of TLS owing to schisms between BoringSSL and
OpenSSL.

Co-authored-by: Shelley Vohr <shelley.vohr@gmail.com>

script/node-disabled-tests.json

@@ -36,6 +36,8 @@
   "message/esm_display_syntax_error_import",
   "message/esm_display_syntax_error_import_module",
   "message/esm_display_syntax_error_module",
+  "message/esm_loader_not_found",
+  "message/esm_loader_syntax_error",
   "message/source_map_throw_catch",
   "message/source_map_throw_first_tick",
   "message/source_map_throw_set_immediate",
@@ -104,6 +106,7 @@
   "parallel/test-inspector-heap-allocation-tracker",
   "parallel/test-module-loading-globalpaths",
   "parallel/test-module-version",
+  "parallel/test-module-run-main-monkey-patch",
   "parallel/test-openssl-ca-options",
   "parallel/test-policy-integrity",
   "parallel/test-preload",
@@ -160,6 +163,8 @@
   "parallel/test-tls-multi-pfx",
   "parallel/test-tls-no-cert-required",
   "parallel/test-tls-options-boolean-check",
+  "parallel/test-tls-psk-circuit",
+  "parallel/test-tls-handshake-exception",
   "parallel/test-tls-passphrase",
   "parallel/test-tls-peer-certificate",
   "parallel/test-tls-pfx-authorizationerror",