chore: bump node to v18.14.0 (main) (#37129)

* chore: bump node in DEPS to v18.14.0

* src: add support for externally shared js builtins

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/44376

* test: fix test broken under --node-builtin-modules-path

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45894

* build: add option to disable shared readonly heap

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45887

* src: remove unnecessary semicolons

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46171

* src: remove return after abort

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46172

* chore: fixup patch indices

* test_runner: parse yaml

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45815

* src: use simdutf for converting externalized builtins to UTF-16

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46119

* src: rename internal module declaration as internal bindings

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45551

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patches/node/api_pass_oomdetails_to_oomerrorcallback.patch

@@ -9,7 +9,7 @@ This patch can be removed when Node.js updates to a V8 version containing
 the above CL.
 
 diff --git a/src/node_errors.cc b/src/node_errors.cc
-index 323fc7d4ff635ca287ee241cee234da0600340a2..36ab78f739f3faecab47eead99f9aa3c403672c0 100644
+index 9f620154ce3696cff90bf308da934147319b1096..806d9700ca4b5faf46042814c0e2ce212945bece 100644
 --- a/src/node_errors.cc
 +++ b/src/node_errors.cc
 @@ -495,9 +495,9 @@ void OnFatalError(const char* location, const char* message) {
@@ -25,7 +25,7 @@ index 323fc7d4ff635ca287ee241cee234da0600340a2..36ab78f739f3faecab47eead99f9aa3c
    if (location) {
      FPrintF(stderr, "FATAL ERROR: %s %s\n", location, message);
 diff --git a/src/node_errors.h b/src/node_errors.h
-index 926f54286ec72fda98a9a477ac8e22feef522291..f926cc1c70dd6f883c0729c46f09e10972ce6385 100644
+index 850d437acdfe09fc43a7a37790c2926e6109749d..5a33d17b0e90e8ca8dc670e14f93de8fef99d526 100644
 --- a/src/node_errors.h
 +++ b/src/node_errors.h
 @@ -21,7 +21,7 @@ void AppendExceptionLine(Environment* env,