chore: bump node to v18.16.0 (main) (#37973)

* chore: bump node in DEPS to v18.16.0

* build,test: add proper support for IBM i

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46739

* lib: enforce use of trailing commas

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46881

* src: add initial support for single executable applications

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45038

* lib: do not crash using workers with disabled shared array buffers

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/41023

* src: remove shadowed variable in OptionsParser::Parse

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46672

* src: allow embedder control of code generation policy

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46368

* src: allow optional Isolate termination in node::Stop()

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46583

* lib: fix BroadcastChannel initialization location

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46864

* chore: fixup patch indices

* chore: sync filenames.json

* fix: add simdutf dep to src/inspector BUILD.gn

- https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46471
- https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46472

* deps: replace url parser with Ada

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46410

* tls: support automatic DHE

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46978

* fixup! src: add initial support for single executable applications

* http: unify header treatment

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46528

* fix: libc++ buffer overflow in string_view ctor

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46410

* test: include strace openat test

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46150

* fixup! fixup! src: add initial support for single executable applications

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patches/node/v8_api_advance_api_deprecation.patch

@@ -8,7 +8,7 @@ Refs https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/v8/v8/+/3702449
 This can be removed when Electron upgrades to Node.js v20.
 
 diff --git a/src/inspector_agent.cc b/src/inspector_agent.cc
-index 1abf6801e0544b14dd26f0b96536bd78c5b01679..93e339602800a21726c9414bf2ebe9a2e5517a3b 100644
+index e5307b529c88d0e4db7fd7c6bd1b032d219b8c31..f6923be7a9ccdac2396cb625b227094f2686e54b 100644
 --- a/src/inspector_agent.cc
 +++ b/src/inspector_agent.cc
 @@ -219,7 +219,8 @@ class ChannelImpl final : public v8_inspector::V8Inspector::Channel,