chore: bump node to v18.16.0 (main) (#37973)

* chore: bump node in DEPS to v18.16.0

* build,test: add proper support for IBM i

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46739

* lib: enforce use of trailing commas

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46881

* src: add initial support for single executable applications

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45038

* lib: do not crash using workers with disabled shared array buffers

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/41023

* src: remove shadowed variable in OptionsParser::Parse

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46672

* src: allow embedder control of code generation policy

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46368

* src: allow optional Isolate termination in node::Stop()

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46583

* lib: fix BroadcastChannel initialization location

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46864

* chore: fixup patch indices

* chore: sync filenames.json

* fix: add simdutf dep to src/inspector BUILD.gn

- https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46471
- https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46472

* deps: replace url parser with Ada

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46410

* tls: support automatic DHE

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46978

* fixup! src: add initial support for single executable applications

* http: unify header treatment

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46528

* fix: libc++ buffer overflow in string_view ctor

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46410

* test: include strace openat test

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46150

* fixup! fixup! src: add initial support for single executable applications

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patches/node/pass_all_globals_through_require.patch

@@ -6,7 +6,7 @@ Subject: Pass all globals through "require"
 (cherry picked from commit 7d015419cb7a0ecfe6728431a4ed2056cd411d62)
 
 diff --git a/lib/internal/modules/cjs/loader.js b/lib/internal/modules/cjs/loader.js
-index 42e5cc50105560174b3106898d20ef11ea37be85..6b9aef981cfa934e1321916828d4f921008134d6 100644
+index 31649227ed8eb36f58ec0b88d498b9e45009f76b..61605a052f976dc7fad224c3c81c2187f3862cdb 100644
 --- a/lib/internal/modules/cjs/loader.js
 +++ b/lib/internal/modules/cjs/loader.js
 @@ -142,6 +142,13 @@ const {
@@ -21,7 +21,7 @@ index 42e5cc50105560174b3106898d20ef11ea37be85..6b9aef981cfa934e1321916828d4f921
 +const localBuffer = Buffer;
 +
  const {
-   isProxy
+   isProxy,
  } = require('internal/util/types');
 @@ -1249,10 +1256,12 @@ Module.prototype._compile = function(content, filename) {
    if (requireDepth === 0) statCache = new SafeMap();