chore: bump node to v18.16.0 (main) (#37973)

* chore: bump node in DEPS to v18.16.0

* build,test: add proper support for IBM i

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46739

* lib: enforce use of trailing commas

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46881

* src: add initial support for single executable applications

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45038

* lib: do not crash using workers with disabled shared array buffers

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/41023

* src: remove shadowed variable in OptionsParser::Parse

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46672

* src: allow embedder control of code generation policy

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46368

* src: allow optional Isolate termination in node::Stop()

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46583

* lib: fix BroadcastChannel initialization location

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46864

* chore: fixup patch indices

* chore: sync filenames.json

* fix: add simdutf dep to src/inspector BUILD.gn

- https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46471
- https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46472

* deps: replace url parser with Ada

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46410

* tls: support automatic DHE

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46978

* fixup! src: add initial support for single executable applications

* http: unify header treatment

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46528

* fix: libc++ buffer overflow in string_view ctor

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46410

* test: include strace openat test

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46150

* fixup! fixup! src: add initial support for single executable applications

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patches/node/feat_initialize_asar_support.patch

@@ -6,7 +6,7 @@ Subject: feat: initialize asar support
 This patch initializes asar support in Node.js.
 
 diff --git a/lib/internal/process/pre_execution.js b/lib/internal/process/pre_execution.js
-index 44a9183d77614c55246a513ec8d47c3f5ec6e41b..158daaf93446d99d21dd001a3ab614b1036c0b02 100644
+index a4cc80d48064fe4f58edf569de4ea962cecb4540..f91a32c0348f805d01d9c198c39cff4c5c72c88b 100644
 --- a/lib/internal/process/pre_execution.js
 +++ b/lib/internal/process/pre_execution.js
 @@ -118,12 +118,17 @@ function setupUserModules() {