chore: bump node to v18.16.0 (main) (#37973)

* chore: bump node in DEPS to v18.16.0

* build,test: add proper support for IBM i

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46739

* lib: enforce use of trailing commas

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46881

* src: add initial support for single executable applications

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45038

* lib: do not crash using workers with disabled shared array buffers

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/41023

* src: remove shadowed variable in OptionsParser::Parse

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46672

* src: allow embedder control of code generation policy

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46368

* src: allow optional Isolate termination in node::Stop()

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46583

* lib: fix BroadcastChannel initialization location

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46864

* chore: fixup patch indices

* chore: sync filenames.json

* fix: add simdutf dep to src/inspector BUILD.gn

- https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46471
- https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46472

* deps: replace url parser with Ada

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46410

* tls: support automatic DHE

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46978

* fixup! src: add initial support for single executable applications

* http: unify header treatment

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46528

* fix: libc++ buffer overflow in string_view ctor

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46410

* test: include strace openat test

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46150

* fixup! fixup! src: add initial support for single executable applications

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Co-authored-by: Shelley Vohr <shelley.vohr@gmail.com>

patches/node/.patches

@@ -12,7 +12,6 @@ chore_add_context_to_context_aware_module_prevention.patch
 fix_handle_boringssl_and_openssl_incompatibilities.patch
 fix_crypto_tests_to_run_with_bssl.patch
 fix_account_for_debugger_agent_race_condition.patch
-repl_fix_crash_when_sharedarraybuffer_disabled.patch
 fix_readbarrier_undefined_symbol_error_on_woa_arm64.patch
 fix_suppress_clang_-wdeprecated-declarations_in_libuv.patch
 fix_serdes_test.patch
@@ -24,15 +23,13 @@ build_ensure_v8_pointer_compression_sandbox_is_enabled_on_64bit.patch
 build_ensure_native_module_compilation_fails_if_not_using_a_new.patch
 fix_override_createjob_in_node_platform.patch
 v8_api_advance_api_deprecation.patch
-fixup_for_error_declaration_shadows_a_local_variable.patch
 fix_parallel_test-v8-stats.patch
 fix_expose_the_built-in_electron_module_via_the_esm_loader.patch
 api_pass_oomdetails_to_oomerrorcallback.patch
 fix_expose_lookupandcompile_with_parameters.patch
 fix_prevent_changing_functiontemplateinfo_after_publish.patch
 enable_crashpad_linux_node_processes.patch
-allow_embedder_to_control_codegenerationfromstringscallback.patch
-src_allow_optional_isolation_termination_in_node.patch
 test_mark_cpu_prof_tests_as_flaky_in_electron.patch
-lib_fix_broadcastchannel_initialization_location.patch
 fix_adapt_debugger_tests_for_upstream_v8_changes.patch
+fix_libc_buffer_overflow_in_string_view_ctor.patch
+fix_preventing_potential_oob_in_ada_no_scheme_parsing.patch