chore: bump node to v16.14.2 (main) (#32833)

* chore: bump node in DEPS to v16.14.0

* src: add flags for controlling process behavior

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/40339

* src: add x509.fingerprint512 to crypto module

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/39809

* deps: upgrade to libuv 1.43.0

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/41398

* chore: fixup patch indices

* chore: add missing filenames

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/39283
https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/40665

* crypto: trim input for NETSCAPE_SPKI_b64_decode

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/40757

* chore: update patches

* chore: bump node in DEPS to v16.14.1

* tools: enable no-empty ESLint rule

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/41831

* chore: update patches

* chore: update patches

* chore: bump node in DEPS to v16.14.2

* chore: update patches

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patches/node/repl_fix_crash_when_sharedarraybuffer_disabled.patch

@@ -25,7 +25,7 @@ index a771b1813731edf4f0dd60f3505799e389f1d876..b9461677e2d7d1df192e752496e62cca
    bench.start();
    for (let i = 0; i < n; i++)
 diff --git a/lib/internal/main/worker_thread.js b/lib/internal/main/worker_thread.js
-index 71a07a63a3636ab211746004ebab24a0058b08fc..e3ce67987ee3185a93750ebad72beab304c71e3a 100644
+index 65827ecd593ffb050484152fc6d31411fd3e4dcc..2e5d6b01d86e34549c1c7a3d3128350cad2b0c47 100644
 --- a/lib/internal/main/worker_thread.js
 +++ b/lib/internal/main/worker_thread.js
 @@ -9,7 +9,7 @@ const {