chore: bump node to v16.14.2 (main) (#32833)

* chore: bump node in DEPS to v16.14.0

* src: add flags for controlling process behavior

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/40339

* src: add x509.fingerprint512 to crypto module

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/39809

* deps: upgrade to libuv 1.43.0

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/41398

* chore: fixup patch indices

* chore: add missing filenames

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/39283
https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/40665

* crypto: trim input for NETSCAPE_SPKI_b64_decode

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/40757

* chore: update patches

* chore: bump node in DEPS to v16.14.1

* tools: enable no-empty ESLint rule

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/41831

* chore: update patches

* chore: update patches

* chore: bump node in DEPS to v16.14.2

* chore: update patches

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patches/node/be_compatible_with_cppgc.patch

@@ -83,7 +83,7 @@ index bb1e8d4b46bce3bf08f730ac5d43f7113d17ae39..6da0669943fc6465ffc47a1c8c3dadfe
  }
  
 diff --git a/src/base_object.h b/src/base_object.h
-index d46a0f216009c63f45c440fc352b54d1ac4a08d8..81913c0d7762bf499ee19aaa3b63b986ca370bb4 100644
+index 1c63da92fd80c042d5ea729bdd70049cae51a141..3b8127e884187b21cebeabb39b60bd3010b62217 100644
 --- a/src/base_object.h
 +++ b/src/base_object.h
 @@ -40,7 +40,7 @@ class TransferData;