chore: bump node to v16.17.0 (main) (#35350)

* chore: bump node in DEPS to v16.17.0

* chore: fixup asar patch

* lib: use null-prototype objects for property descriptors

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/43270

* src: make SecureContext fields private

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/43173

* crypto: remove Node.js-specific webcrypto extensions

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/43310

* test: refactor to top-level await

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/43500

* deps: cherry-pick two libuv fixes

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/43950

* src: slim down env-inl.h

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/43745

* util: add AggregateError.prototype.errors to inspect output

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/43646

* esm: improve performance & tidy tests

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/43784

* src: NodeArrayBufferAllocator delegates to v8's allocator

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/43594

* chore: update patch indices

* chore: update filenames

* src: refactor IsSupportedAuthenticatedMode

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/42368

* src: add --openssl-legacy-provider option

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/40478

* lib,src: add source map support for global eval

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/43428

* trace_events: trace net connect event

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/43903

* deps: update ICU to 71.1

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/42655

This fails the test because it's missing 3841093

* lib: give names to promisified exists() and question()

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/43218

* crypto: add CFRG curves to Web Crypto API

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/42507

* src: fix memory leak for v8.serialize

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/42695

This test does not work for Electron as they do not use V8's
ArrayBufferAllocator.

* buffer: fix atob input validation

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/42539

* src: fix ssize_t error from nghttp2.h

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/44393

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Co-authored-by: Shelley Vohr <shelley.vohr@gmail.com>

script/node-disabled-tests.json

@@ -25,6 +25,7 @@
   "parallel/test-https-agent-session-reuse",
   "parallel/test-https-options-boolean-check",
   "parallel/test-icu-minimum-version",
+  "parallel/test-icu-env",
   "parallel/test-inspector-multisession-ws",
   "parallel/test-inspector-port-zero-cluster",
   "parallel/test-inspector-tracing-domain",
@@ -94,6 +95,7 @@
   "parallel/test-trace-events-file-pattern",
   "parallel/test-trace-events-fs-sync",
   "parallel/test-trace-events-metadata",
+  "parallel/test-trace-events-net",
   "parallel/test-trace-events-none",
   "parallel/test-trace-events-process-exit",
   "parallel/test-trace-events-promises",
@@ -102,16 +104,20 @@
   "parallel/test-trace-events-worker-metadata",
   "parallel/test-v8-untrusted-code-mitigations",
   "parallel/test-webcrypto-derivebits-node-dh",
+  "parallel/test-webcrypto-derivebits-cfrg",
+  "parallel/test-webcrypto-derivekey-cfrg",
   "parallel/test-webcrypto-ed25519-ed448",
   "parallel/test-webcrypto-encrypt-decrypt",
   "parallel/test-webcrypto-encrypt-decrypt-aes",
   "parallel/test-webcrypto-encrypt-decrypt-rsa",
+  "parallel/test-webcrypto-export-import-cfrg",
   "parallel/test-webcrypto-keygen",
   "parallel/test-webcrypto-rsa-pss-params",
   "parallel/test-webcrypto-sign-verify-node-dsa",
-  "parallel/test-webcrypto-x25519-x448",
+  "parallel/test-webcrypto-sign-verify-eddsa",
   "parallel/test-worker-debug",
   "parallel/test-worker-stdio",
+  "parallel/test-v8-serialize-leak",
   "parallel/test-zlib-unused-weak",
   "report/test-report-fatal-error",
   "report/test-report-getreport",