chore: bump node to v16.17.0 (main) (#35350)

* chore: bump node in DEPS to v16.17.0

* chore: fixup asar patch

* lib: use null-prototype objects for property descriptors

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/43270

* src: make SecureContext fields private

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/43173

* crypto: remove Node.js-specific webcrypto extensions

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/43310

* test: refactor to top-level await

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/43500

* deps: cherry-pick two libuv fixes

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/43950

* src: slim down env-inl.h

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/43745

* util: add AggregateError.prototype.errors to inspect output

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/43646

* esm: improve performance & tidy tests

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/43784

* src: NodeArrayBufferAllocator delegates to v8's allocator

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/43594

* chore: update patch indices

* chore: update filenames

* src: refactor IsSupportedAuthenticatedMode

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/42368

* src: add --openssl-legacy-provider option

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/40478

* lib,src: add source map support for global eval

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/43428

* trace_events: trace net connect event

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/43903

* deps: update ICU to 71.1

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/42655

This fails the test because it's missing 3841093

* lib: give names to promisified exists() and question()

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/43218

* crypto: add CFRG curves to Web Crypto API

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/42507

* src: fix memory leak for v8.serialize

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/42695

This test does not work for Electron as they do not use V8's
ArrayBufferAllocator.

* buffer: fix atob input validation

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/42539

* src: fix ssize_t error from nghttp2.h

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/44393

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patches/node/expose_get_builtin_module_function.patch

@@ -9,10 +9,10 @@ modules to sandboxed renderers.
 TODO(codebytere): remove and replace with a public facing API.
 
 diff --git a/src/node_binding.cc b/src/node_binding.cc
-index 050c5dff0ad5fc0692e348741b820762d40bd498..e323f76261f2028ef58da74066f9112d8a5a8df2 100644
+index 29b9ccdaed8b109dcc93374ba9abc59b9d2ffdb9..03e26027406e655ce876a9af689c7d97920c4327 100644
 --- a/src/node_binding.cc
 +++ b/src/node_binding.cc
-@@ -614,6 +614,10 @@ void GetInternalBinding(const FunctionCallbackInfo<Value>& args) {
+@@ -615,6 +615,10 @@ void GetInternalBinding(const FunctionCallbackInfo<Value>& args) {
    args.GetReturnValue().Set(exports);
  }