chore: bump node to v20.18.1 (32-x-y) (#44779)

* chore: bump node in DEPS to v20.18.1

* chore: update patches

* lib: remove lib/internal/idna.js

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/55050

* buffer: fix out of range for toString

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/54553

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patches/node/support_v8_sandboxed_pointers.patch

@@ -298,3 +298,17 @@ index 9787b14352753c5e0f8dc2b90093680e7cd10f1a..31af9e62396368af1b81f8841a705fd3
    auto ab = ArrayBuffer::New(isolate, std::move(bs));
    v8::Local<Uint8Array> u8 = v8::Uint8Array::New(ab, 0, 1);
  
+diff --git a/test/parallel/test-buffer-tostring-range.js b/test/parallel/test-buffer-tostring-range.js
+index 1167654dcf0773be953d09dfcf534e902e75595b..a769ec1fb61916d4285fa9d3559ded5df4f02e9e 100644
+--- a/test/parallel/test-buffer-tostring-range.js
++++ b/test/parallel/test-buffer-tostring-range.js
+@@ -103,6 +103,8 @@ assert.throws(() => {
+ // Cannot test on 32bit machine as we are testing the case
+ // when start and end are above the threshold
+ common.skipIf32Bits();
++/* Disabled due to incompatiblity with v8 memory cage
+ const threshold = 0xFFFFFFFF;
+ const largeBuffer = Buffer.alloc(threshold);
+ largeBuffer.toString('utf8', threshold + 0xF, threshold + 0xFF);
++*/
+\ No newline at end of file