chore: bump node to v12.14.1 (master) (#21703)

Co-authored-by: Shelley Vohr <shelley.vohr@gmail.com>

patches/node/fixme_comment_trace_event_macro.patch

@@ -7,10 +7,10 @@ This broke the build at some point. Does it still? We should probably remove
 this patch and find out!
 
 diff --git a/src/node_internals.h b/src/node_internals.h
-index fb1188a6bbce37b2bbaba0a815f2826dca60cf3b..843cbf1d253022c9601ceaf74022873a48ac0a5f 100644
+index e8d6705e0197aad55b931910bb5221dd33b37fb0..c55ddf6988344eef5fd9efc3b24337d3b1e4cdbb 100644
 --- a/src/node_internals.h
 +++ b/src/node_internals.h
-@@ -350,10 +350,11 @@ class TraceEventScope {
+@@ -358,10 +358,11 @@ class TraceEventScope {
    TraceEventScope(const char* category,
                    const char* name,
                    void* id) : category_(category), name_(name), id_(id) {