chore: bump node to v20.14.0 (31-x-y) (#42295)

* chore: bump node in DEPS to v20.13.1

* chore: bump node in DEPS to v20.14.0

* crypto: enable NODE_EXTRA_CA_CERTS with BoringSSL

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/52217

* test: skip test for dynamically linked OpenSSL

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/52542

* lib, url: add a `windows` option to path parsing

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/52509

* src: use dedicated routine to compile function for builtin CJS loader

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/52016

* test: mark test as flaky

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/52671

* build,tools: add test-ubsan ci

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46297

* src: preload function for Environment

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/51539

* chore: fixup patch indices

* deps: update c-ares to 1.28.1

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/52285

* chore: handle updated filenames

* events: extract addAbortListener for safe internal use

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/52081

* module: print location of unsettled top-level await in entry points

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/51999

* fs: add stacktrace to fs/promises

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/49849

* chore: fixup patch indices

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Co-authored-by: electron-roller[bot] <84116207+electron-roller[bot]@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: Shelley Vohr <shelley.vohr@gmail.com>

patches/node/build_add_gn_build_files.patch

@@ -537,10 +537,10 @@ index 0e69d7383762f6b81c5b57698aa9d121d5a9c401..35bbeb37acc7ccb14b4b8a644ec3d4c7
          cflags_c = [
            "-mavx512vl",
 diff --git a/deps/cares/BUILD.gn b/deps/cares/BUILD.gn
-index ac19ac73ed1e24c61cb679f3851685b79cfc8b39..1717143998ae15e65e9af12650b796226508a137 100644
+index ac19ac73ed1e24c61cb679f3851685b79cfc8b39..3f253daee0f9b1faa50857f61d76de001bd8947e 100644
 --- a/deps/cares/BUILD.gn
 +++ b/deps/cares/BUILD.gn
-@@ -1,14 +1,165 @@
+@@ -1,14 +1,163 @@
 -##############################################################################
 -#                                                                            #
 -#                       DO NOT EDIT THIS FILE!                               #
@@ -587,7 +587,6 @@ index ac19ac73ed1e24c61cb679f3851685b79cfc8b39..1717143998ae15e65e9af12650b79622
 +    "src/lib/ares__llist.c",
 +    "src/lib/ares__llist.h",
 +    "src/lib/ares__parse_into_addrinfo.c",
-+    "src/lib/ares__read_line.c",
 +    "src/lib/ares__slist.c",
 +    "src/lib/ares__slist.h",
 +    "src/lib/ares__socket.c",
@@ -635,7 +634,6 @@ index ac19ac73ed1e24c61cb679f3851685b79cfc8b39..1717143998ae15e65e9af12650b79622
 +    "src/lib/ares_library_init.c",
 +    "src/lib/ares_ipv6.h",
 +    "src/lib/ares_math.c",
-+    "src/lib/ares_mkquery.c",
 +    "src/lib/ares_options.c",
 +    "src/lib/ares_parse_a_reply.c",
 +    "src/lib/ares_parse_aaaa_reply.c",
@@ -1258,7 +1256,7 @@ index 0000000000000000000000000000000000000000..af9cbada10203b387fb9732b346583b1
 +}
 diff --git a/filenames.json b/filenames.json
 new file mode 100644
-index 0000000000000000000000000000000000000000..424b6f4f9d89c43a2c0404d1a5cb03828f29d906
+index 0000000000000000000000000000000000000000..1a9cba024f1762b0dfe31da92213b51e112101ec
 --- /dev/null
 +++ b/filenames.json
 @@ -0,0 +1,739 @@
@@ -1532,6 +1530,7 @@ index 0000000000000000000000000000000000000000..424b6f4f9d89c43a2c0404d1a5cb0382
 +    "lib/internal/error_serdes.js",
 +    "lib/internal/errors.js",
 +    "lib/internal/event_target.js",
++    "lib/internal/events/abort_listener.js",
 +    "lib/internal/events/symbols.js",
 +    "lib/internal/file.js",
 +    "lib/internal/fixed_queue.js",
@@ -1568,7 +1567,6 @@ index 0000000000000000000000000000000000000000..424b6f4f9d89c43a2c0404d1a5cb0382
 +    "lib/internal/modules/esm/fetch_module.js",
 +    "lib/internal/modules/esm/formats.js",
 +    "lib/internal/modules/esm/get_format.js",
-+    "lib/internal/modules/esm/handle_process_exit.js",
 +    "lib/internal/modules/esm/hooks.js",
 +    "lib/internal/modules/esm/initialize_import_meta.js",
 +    "lib/internal/modules/esm/load.js",
@@ -1603,7 +1601,6 @@ index 0000000000000000000000000000000000000000..424b6f4f9d89c43a2c0404d1a5cb0382
 +    "lib/internal/policy/manifest.js",
 +    "lib/internal/policy/sri.js",
 +    "lib/internal/priority_queue.js",
-+    "lib/internal/process/esm_loader.js",
 +    "lib/internal/process/execution.js",
 +    "lib/internal/process/per_thread.js",
 +    "lib/internal/process/permission.js",
@@ -1781,6 +1778,7 @@ index 0000000000000000000000000000000000000000..424b6f4f9d89c43a2c0404d1a5cb0382
 +    "src/handle_wrap.cc",
 +    "src/heap_utils.cc",
 +    "src/histogram.cc",
++    "src/internal_only_v8.cc",
 +    "src/js_native_api.h",
 +    "src/js_native_api_types.h",
 +    "src/js_native_api_v8.cc",
@@ -2365,7 +2363,7 @@ index 0000000000000000000000000000000000000000..9be3ac447f9a4dde23fefc26e0b922b4
 +      transformed_f.write(transformed_contents)
 +
 diff --git a/tools/install.py b/tools/install.py
-index 17b0947aaca4cd63ce6b57ffc4835eae7f74e76e..c6fa8a931f6a1357592a8447b1abbfe0c894aefd 100755
+index b132c7bf26c02886a7ab341a1973bf449744ba0f..171b383a4b6c2528d11dd5f89a6837fd071bcf4b 100755
 --- a/tools/install.py
 +++ b/tools/install.py
 @@ -284,6 +284,7 @@ def headers(options, action):
@@ -2388,7 +2386,7 @@ index 17b0947aaca4cd63ce6b57ffc4835eae7f74e76e..c6fa8a931f6a1357592a8447b1abbfe0
 diff --git a/tools/js2c.cc b/tools/js2c.cc
 old mode 100644
 new mode 100755
-index 0fa9c5954d24a555a1e7c50fdb4b43c17cb1452d..9a77af51630aec5437a09aae1d7296e2e1238809
+index e0f3d8844718ab8a6478c40ff713c1fd6bcff95a..c73a5b666dbaf555c749d836c20a7ae19a840847
 --- a/tools/js2c.cc
 +++ b/tools/js2c.cc
 @@ -30,6 +30,7 @@ namespace js2c {