chore: bump node to v22.13.1 (main) (#45307)

* chore: bump node in DEPS to v22.13.1

* chore: fixup GN build file

* https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/55529
* https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/55798
* https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/55530

* module: simplify --inspect-brk handling

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/55679

* src: fix outdated js2c.cc references

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/56133

* crypto: include openssl/rand.h explicitly

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/55425

* build: use variable for crypto dep path

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/55928

* crypto: fix RSA_PKCS1_PADDING error message

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/55629

* build: use variable for simdutf path

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/56196

* test,crypto: make crypto tests work with BoringSSL

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/55491

* fix: suppress clang -Wdeprecated-declarations in libuv

https://github.com/libuv/libuv/pull/4486

* deps: update libuv to 1.49.1

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/55114

* test: make test-node-output-v8-warning more flexible

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/55401

* [v22.x] Revert "v8: enable maglev on supported architectures"

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/54384

* fix: potential WIN32_LEAN_AND_MEAN redefinition

https://github.com/c-ares/c-ares/pull/869

* deps: update nghttp2 to 1.64.0

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/55559

* src: provide workaround for container-overflow

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/55591

* build: use variable for simdutf path

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/56196

* chore: fixup patch indices

* fixup! module: simplify --inspect-brk handling

* lib: fix fs.readdir recursive async

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/56041

* lib: avoid excluding symlinks in recursive fs.readdir with filetypes

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/55714/

This doesn't currently play well with ASAR - this should be fixed in a follow up

* test: disable CJS permission test for config.main

This has diverged as a result of our revert of
src,lb: reducing C++ calls of esm legacy main resolve

* fixup! lib: fix fs.readdir recursive async

* deps: update libuv to 1.49.1

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/55114

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patches/node/build_enable_perfetto.patch

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  module.exports = {
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+index b21cfbf2fad024445e8d1ef8a6781141f788eb1a..55c6e01d9e879ce63524ec1504f8a23e00a2aa29 100644
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