chore: bump node to v16.9.1 (main) (#30919)

* chore: bump node in DEPS to v16.9.1

* chore: update patches

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Co-authored-by: PatchUp <73610968+patchup[bot]@users.noreply.github.com>

DEPS

@@ -17,7 +17,7 @@ vars = {
   'chromium_version':
     '95.0.4629.0',
   'node_version':
-    'v16.9.0',
+    'v16.9.1',
   'nan_version':
     # The following commit hash of NAN is v2.14.2 with *only* changes to the
     # test suite. This should be updated to a specific tag when one becomes

patches/node/build_add_gn_build_files.patch

@@ -1781,7 +1781,7 @@ index 0000000000000000000000000000000000000000..d1d6b51e8c0c5bc6a5d09e217eb30483
 +  args = rebase_path(inputs + outputs, root_build_dir)
 +}
 diff --git a/src/node_version.h b/src/node_version.h
-index 0d3c9376bcdcdd19c4bb7f75d55edb59b2365763..b9cf999c2387cf47ae0df79fb4a0a726dd2f0143 100644
+index 48b8d9f22fb98d0733630eaea3194d746fba8a2f..a7a12564e4dd9320959d07fb4ab1527f942cf115 100644
 --- a/src/node_version.h
 +++ b/src/node_version.h
 @@ -89,7 +89,10 @@

patches/node/enable_31_bit_smis_on_64bit_arch_and_ptr_compression.patch

@@ -8,7 +8,7 @@ node modules will have different (wrong) ideas about how v8 structs are laid
 out in memory on 64-bit machines, and will summarily fail to work.
 
 diff --git a/common.gypi b/common.gypi
-index 03f8adb56c7b9e7e0f6c5a9316d7555eec5c6d71..1abaf07de629a269d95c10dd7bcb3b3e6aec318e 100644
+index 75fc36bc3c0eee65a6bb00ec31c79aabf3bb7dde..82722da38f0027626e204dd7a33f7bc5e070059d 100644
 --- a/common.gypi
 +++ b/common.gypi
 @@ -64,7 +64,7 @@

patches/node/fix_add_default_values_for_variables_in_common_gypi.patch

@@ -7,7 +7,7 @@ common.gypi is a file that's included in the node header bundle, despite
 the fact that we do not build node with gyp.
 
 diff --git a/common.gypi b/common.gypi
-index 0f8999f407999451ecf5989b8504caf8eac7e9cf..03f8adb56c7b9e7e0f6c5a9316d7555eec5c6d71 100644
+index 013f24b107408f757f4bdb950be519f61bc5358b..75fc36bc3c0eee65a6bb00ec31c79aabf3bb7dde 100644
 --- a/common.gypi
 +++ b/common.gypi
 @@ -81,6 +81,23 @@

patches/node/fix_add_v8_enable_reverse_jsargs_defines_in_common_gypi.patch

@@ -6,7 +6,7 @@ Subject: fix: add v8_enable_reverse_jsargs defines in common.gypi
 This can be removed once node upgrades V8 and inevitably has to do this exact same thing.  Also hi node people if you are looking at this.
 
 diff --git a/common.gypi b/common.gypi
-index 1abaf07de629a269d95c10dd7bcb3b3e6aec318e..1fa4d367840c817dbb9310cd0c7a9cc022e7dd61 100644
+index 82722da38f0027626e204dd7a33f7bc5e070059d..f330d4e92a585d7d72e8322cebb5606fe7220e8c 100644
 --- a/common.gypi
 +++ b/common.gypi
 @@ -65,6 +65,7 @@