chore: bump node to v12.13.1 (master) (#21198)

* chore: bump node in DEPS to v12.13.1

* chore: remove redundant patches

* disable node tests

disable prepareStackTrack test since Node.js won't handle our case, and disable new es-module tests since it's still flagged and requires flags to run properly

* fix missing files

Co-authored-by: Shelley Vohr <shelley.vohr@gmail.com>

* fix: don't error if can't find advapi32.dll

* fixup! chore: bump node in DEPS to v12.13.1

* Disable native tests for now

patches/node/build_add_gn_build_files.patch

@@ -886,7 +886,7 @@ new file mode 100644
 index 0000000000000000000000000000000000000000..5eb839f45aca3ed73d69b43a34c438ce254a2c6b
 --- /dev/null
 +++ b/filenames.json
-@@ -0,0 +1,446 @@
+@@ -0,0 +1,448 @@
 +// This file is automatically generated by generate_gn_filenames_json.py
 +// DO NOT EDIT
 +{
@@ -1106,6 +1106,7 @@ index 0000000000000000000000000000000000000000..5eb839f45aca3ed73d69b43a34c438ce
 +    "lib/internal/repl/history.js",
 +    "lib/internal/repl/utils.js",
 +    "lib/internal/socket_list.js",
++    "lib/internal/source_map/prepare_stack_trace.js",
 +    "lib/internal/source_map/source_map.js",
 +    "lib/internal/source_map/source_map_cache.js",
 +    "lib/internal/test/binding.js",
@@ -1139,6 +1140,7 @@ index 0000000000000000000000000000000000000000..5eb839f45aca3ed73d69b43a34c438ce
 +    "lib/internal/streams/state.js",
 +    "lib/internal/streams/pipeline.js",
 +    "lib/internal/streams/end-of-stream.js",
++    "lib/internal/streams/from.js",
 +    "deps/v8/tools/splaytree.js",
 +    "deps/v8/tools/codemap.js",
 +    "deps/v8/tools/consarray.js",