build: update some build dependencies (#44072)

* build: update some build dependencies (#43882)

* build: update some build dependencies

* build: fix eslint issues after updating

* build: disable ts check on busted js example

* build: update internal types for stricter event handling

* restore url.parse behavior

* fix typing issues

* sigh

* build: update easy deps

* build: skip woa engines check

* build: s/colors/chalk

* build: node 20 on windows

spec/fixtures/api/fork-with-node-options.js

@@ -19,7 +19,7 @@ try {
     ['--require', path.join(fixtures, 'module', 'noop.js')],
     { env, stdio: 'inherit' });
   process.exit(0);
-} catch (error) {
+} catch {
   console.log('NODE_OPTIONS passed to child');
   process.exit(1);
 }