chore: bump node to v22.16.0 (main) (#47217)

* chore: bump node in DEPS to v22.16.0

* crypto: remove BoringSSL dh-primes addition

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/57023

* tools: enable linter in test/fixtures/test\-runner/output

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/57698

* src: improve thread safety of TaskQueue

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/57910

* buffer: define global v8::CFunction objects as const

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/57676

* src: disable abseil deadlock detection

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/57582

* zlib: fix pointer alignment

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/57727

* chore: fixup patch indices

* src: set default config as node.config.json

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/57171

* src: update std::vector<v8::Local<T>> to use v8::LocalVector<T>

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/57578

* test: disable chmod tests failing in Docker

https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/58326

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patches/node/fix_do_not_resolve_electron_entrypoints.patch

@@ -33,7 +33,7 @@ index 49aacb6262502ced54e817f99dd596db85b9659c..f9f065bb743275e9b2ce71375e6a9f06
    if (!loaded) {
      module = new CJSModule(filename);
 diff --git a/lib/internal/modules/run_main.js b/lib/internal/modules/run_main.js
-index ab4783a7982b9feb8fa85b62e3e3b181f93309bd..34f91026451d7347ae278712d083e4fe281e50f3 100644
+index 02ba43adc2c8e92a78942bbb04023a16f5870ee9..bbf1ab69b884a9325bebdd07b2c4fd354eee946b 100644
 --- a/lib/internal/modules/run_main.js
 +++ b/lib/internal/modules/run_main.js
 @@ -2,6 +2,7 @@