chore: bump node to v20.13.1 (main) (#42088)

* chore: bump node in DEPS to v20.13.0

* crypto: enable NODE_EXTRA_CA_CERTS with BoringSSL

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/52217

* test: skip test for dynamically linked OpenSSL

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/52542

* lib, url: add a `windows` option to path parsing

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/52509

* src: use dedicated routine to compile function for builtin CJS loader

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/52016

* test: mark test as flaky

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/52671

* build,tools: add test-ubsan ci

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46297

* src: preload function for Environment

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/51539

* chore: fixup patch indices

* deps: update c-ares to 1.28.1

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/52285

* chore: handle updated filenames

- https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/51999
- https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/51927

* chore: bump node in DEPS to v20.13.1

* events: extract addAbortListener for safe internal use

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/52081

* module: print location of unsettled top-level await in entry points

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/51999

* fs: add stacktrace to fs/promises

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/49849

* chore: update patches

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patches/node/enable_crashpad_linux_node_processes.patch

@@ -8,7 +8,7 @@ to child processes spawned with `ELECTRON_RUN_AS_NODE` which is used
 by the crashpad client to connect with the handler process.
 
 diff --git a/lib/child_process.js b/lib/child_process.js
-index 449013906e93e59568a90264d5372a3962db6cb0..168163001f13b641bc284fd01a71f075e1ada94f 100644
+index c09fca512584ce2c674ae1d05136ff4cd8ea8471..3947e231f4e641b97d12c9639a736fab8836787b 100644
 --- a/lib/child_process.js
 +++ b/lib/child_process.js
 @@ -61,6 +61,7 @@ let debug = require('internal/util/debuglog').debuglog(