chore: bump node to v20.13.1 (main) (#42088)

* chore: bump node in DEPS to v20.13.0

* crypto: enable NODE_EXTRA_CA_CERTS with BoringSSL

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/52217

* test: skip test for dynamically linked OpenSSL

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/52542

* lib, url: add a `windows` option to path parsing

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/52509

* src: use dedicated routine to compile function for builtin CJS loader

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/52016

* test: mark test as flaky

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/52671

* build,tools: add test-ubsan ci

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/46297

* src: preload function for Environment

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/51539

* chore: fixup patch indices

* deps: update c-ares to 1.28.1

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/52285

* chore: handle updated filenames

- https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/51999
- https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/51927

* chore: bump node in DEPS to v20.13.1

* events: extract addAbortListener for safe internal use

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/52081

* module: print location of unsettled top-level await in entry points

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/51999

* fs: add stacktrace to fs/promises

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/49849

* chore: update patches

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patches/node/chore_expose_importmoduledynamically_and.patch

@@ -11,7 +11,7 @@ its own blended handler between Node and Blink.
 Not upstreamable.
 
 diff --git a/lib/internal/modules/esm/utils.js b/lib/internal/modules/esm/utils.js
-index 39e87338dc5a799a8a30bd2399b8ec5d6b554fad..7b1939fa25379b333f2be07f4ff483f53d8a2ac6 100644
+index d7867864bba7141b7ba12b171d185a94ed25d01d..d93a248d8a96fe1dffa08b39cfe3ea7b368db54a 100644
 --- a/lib/internal/modules/esm/utils.js
 +++ b/lib/internal/modules/esm/utils.js
 @@ -24,7 +24,7 @@ const {
@@ -23,7 +23,7 @@ index 39e87338dc5a799a8a30bd2399b8ec5d6b554fad..7b1939fa25379b333f2be07f4ff483f5
  const {
    loadPreloadModules,
    initializeFrozenIntrinsics,
-@@ -239,12 +239,13 @@ let _forceDefaultLoader = false;
+@@ -236,12 +236,13 @@ let _forceDefaultLoader = false;
   * @param {boolean} [forceDefaultLoader=false] - A boolean indicating disabling custom loaders.
   */
  function initializeESM(forceDefaultLoader = false) {