chore: bump node to v20.17.0 (main) (#43428)

* chore: bump node in DEPS to v20.17.0

* module: disallow CJS <-> ESM edges in a cycle from require(esm)

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/52264

* src: expose LookupAndCompile with parameters

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/53886

* src: fix -Wshadow warning

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/53885

* lib: convert WeakMaps in cjs loader with symbol properties

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/52095

* src: reduce unnecessary serialization of CLI options in C++

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/52451

* build: ensure v8_pointer_compression_sandbox is enabled on 64bit

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/53884

* lib: improve error message when index not found on cjs

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/53859

* src,lib: expose getCategoryEnabledBuffer to use on node.http

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/53602

* deps: update c-ares to v1.32.2

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/53865

* chore: fixup patch indices

* deps: update V8 to 12.2

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/51362

* stream: Expose DuplexPair API

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/34111

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patches/chromium/can_create_window.patch

@@ -210,15 +210,15 @@ index c576ace24e81cc877aa2595d40e0a13a7af9f6a2..210fb97d44c19c29af424cc7b9cb3169
  
  }  // namespace blink
 diff --git a/third_party/blink/renderer/core/frame/local_dom_window.cc b/third_party/blink/renderer/core/frame/local_dom_window.cc
-index 96d7ba915e3d4248ad801237b0b43ff0b55be1a2..24cf1a2aa6f821c4d5597d98f3bf98a10bd30555 100644
+index 96d7ba915e3d4248ad801237b0b43ff0b55be1a2..8da4acbde65e933740a53de1dc45e7c779a688fb 100644
 --- a/third_party/blink/renderer/core/frame/local_dom_window.cc
 +++ b/third_party/blink/renderer/core/frame/local_dom_window.cc
-@@ -2245,6 +2245,8 @@ DOMWindow* LocalDOMWindow::open(v8::Isolate* isolate,
- 
+@@ -2246,6 +2246,8 @@ DOMWindow* LocalDOMWindow::open(v8::Isolate* isolate,
    WebWindowFeatures window_features =
        GetWindowFeaturesFromString(features, entered_window);
-+
-+  window_features.raw_features = features;
  
++  window_features.raw_features = features;
++
    if (window_features.is_partitioned_popin &&
        !IsFeatureEnabled(
+           mojom::blink::PermissionsPolicyFeature::kPartitionedPopins,