chore: remove native_mate (Part 3) (#20131)

* use gin converter in atom_api_menu

* please only put necessary includes in header

Having include in header means they have dependency relationship,
putting arbitrary includes really really really really really makes
refacoring much harder.

* remove some simple uses of callback_converter_deprecated.h

* use gin callback converter in file_dialog code

* use gin in ErrorThrower

* use gin in atom_bundle_mover

* fix mistake in node stream

* deprecate native_mate version of event_emitter_caller

* use gin in node_bindings

* remove usages of native_mate event_emitter_caller.h except for EventEmitter

* fix compilation on Windows

* gin::Arguments behaves differently on GetNext

* just use StringToV8

patches/chromium/.patches

@@ -17,6 +17,7 @@ web_contents.patch
 webview_cross_drag.patch
 disable_user_gesture_requirement_for_beforeunload_dialogs.patch
 gin_enable_disable_v8_platform.patch
+gin_dictionary_default_constructor.patch
 blink-worker-enable-csp-in-file-scheme.patch
 disable-redraw-lock.patch
 v8_context_snapshot_generator.patch

patches/chromium/gin_dictionary_default_constructor.patch

@@ -0,0 +1,37 @@
+From 0000000000000000000000000000000000000000 Mon Sep 17 00:00:00 2001
+From: Cheng Zhao <zcbenz@gmail.com>
+Date: Thu, 4 Oct 2018 14:57:02 -0700
+Subject: gin_dictionary_default_constructor.patch
+
+Add default constructor for gin::Dictionary.
+
+This is required for automatically converting arguments for functions that
+take gin::Dictionary as parameter.
+
+diff --git a/gin/dictionary.cc b/gin/dictionary.cc
+index 95e00072700c..7643347890a5 100644
+--- a/gin/dictionary.cc
++++ b/gin/dictionary.cc
+@@ -6,6 +6,10 @@
+ 
+ namespace gin {
+ 
++Dictionary::Dictionary()
++    : isolate_(nullptr) {
++}
++
+ Dictionary::Dictionary(v8::Isolate* isolate)
+     : isolate_(isolate) {
+ }
+diff --git a/gin/dictionary.h b/gin/dictionary.h
+index 2645d328b4c1..43b227dd7e48 100644
+--- a/gin/dictionary.h
++++ b/gin/dictionary.h
+@@ -24,6 +24,7 @@ namespace gin {
+ //
+ class GIN_EXPORT Dictionary {
+  public:
++  Dictionary();
+   explicit Dictionary(v8::Isolate* isolate);
+   Dictionary(v8::Isolate* isolate, v8::Local<v8::Object> object);
+   Dictionary(const Dictionary& other);