chore: bump node to v18.13.0 (main) (#36818)

* chore: bump node in DEPS to v18.13.0

* child_process: validate arguments for null bytes

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/44782

* bootstrap: merge main thread and worker thread initializations

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/44869

* module: ensure relative requires work from deleted directories

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/42384

* src: add support for externally shared js builtins

https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/44000

* lib: disambiguate `native module` to `binding`

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45673

* test: convert test-debugger-pid to async/await

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45179

* deps: upgrade to libuv 1.44.2

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/42340

* src: fix cppgc incompatibility in v8

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/43521

* src: use qualified `std::move` call in node_http2

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45555

* build: fix env.h for cpp20

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45516

* test: remove experimental-wasm-threads flag

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45074

* src: iwyu in cleanup_queue.cc

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/44983

* src: add missing include for `std::all_of`

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45541

* deps: update ICU to 72.1

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45068

* chore: fixup patch indices

* chore: remove errant semicolons

- https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/44179
- https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/44193

* src: add support for externally shared js builtins

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/44376

* chore: add missing GN filenames

* deps: update nghttp2 to 1.51.0

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45537

* chore: disable more Node.js snapshot tests

The Snapshot feature is currently disabled

* chore: disable ICU timezone tests

Node.js uses a different version of ICU than Electron so they
will often be out of sync.

* chore: disable threadpool event tracing test

Event tracing is not enabled in embedded Node.js

* chore: fixup patch indices

* chore: comments from review

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Co-authored-by: Shelley Vohr <shelley.vohr@gmail.com>

patches/node/fix_prevent_changing_functiontemplateinfo_after_publish.patch

@@ -37,10 +37,10 @@ index 3a3228ddc9eb6b53efc0721466479a9f62cd8967..175a67840348ca507d6e8b29835e5ab3
          HistogramBase::kInternalFieldCount);
      SetProtoMethodNoSideEffect(isolate, tmpl, "count", GetCount);
 diff --git a/src/node_messaging.cc b/src/node_messaging.cc
-index f88270fc75de91610a973c0649e1bc699c3e014d..e47f7a597a6ca0cfd71fec1e42f0fbb75cb539c7 100644
+index 009ac0056c5486a3f94889f70b592e26827d86a0..ba497064de834c4ea565bb267d1e95e4647b79eb 100644
 --- a/src/node_messaging.cc
 +++ b/src/node_messaging.cc
-@@ -1467,13 +1467,16 @@ static void InitMessaging(Local<Object> target,
+@@ -1495,13 +1495,16 @@ static void InitMessaging(Local<Object> target,
      t->Inherit(BaseObject::GetConstructorTemplate(env));
      t->InstanceTemplate()->SetInternalFieldCount(
          JSTransferable::kInternalFieldCount);