chore: bump node to v18.13.0 (main) (#36818)

* chore: bump node in DEPS to v18.13.0

* child_process: validate arguments for null bytes

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/44782

* bootstrap: merge main thread and worker thread initializations

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/44869

* module: ensure relative requires work from deleted directories

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/42384

* src: add support for externally shared js builtins

https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/44000

* lib: disambiguate `native module` to `binding`

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45673

* test: convert test-debugger-pid to async/await

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45179

* deps: upgrade to libuv 1.44.2

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/42340

* src: fix cppgc incompatibility in v8

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/43521

* src: use qualified `std::move` call in node_http2

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45555

* build: fix env.h for cpp20

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45516

* test: remove experimental-wasm-threads flag

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45074

* src: iwyu in cleanup_queue.cc

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/44983

* src: add missing include for `std::all_of`

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45541

* deps: update ICU to 72.1

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45068

* chore: fixup patch indices

* chore: remove errant semicolons

- https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/44179
- https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/44193

* src: add support for externally shared js builtins

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/44376

* chore: add missing GN filenames

* deps: update nghttp2 to 1.51.0

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45537

* chore: disable more Node.js snapshot tests

The Snapshot feature is currently disabled

* chore: disable ICU timezone tests

Node.js uses a different version of ICU than Electron so they
will often be out of sync.

* chore: disable threadpool event tracing test

Event tracing is not enabled in embedded Node.js

* chore: fixup patch indices

* chore: comments from review

Co-authored-by: electron-roller[bot] <84116207+electron-roller[bot]@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: Shelley Vohr <shelley.vohr@gmail.com>

patches/node/fix_expose_lookupandcompile_with_parameters.patch

@@ -10,10 +10,10 @@ parameters.
 This should be upstreamed.
 
 diff --git a/src/node_builtins.cc b/src/node_builtins.cc
-index 3bc9d113b6b818dcda332966f09f17248b421263..549339b5b677fa242a7b60ae716789c2a11ab18d 100644
+index 6e1a55adbd0b01383f3e54e924864dfeb6a57f0b..25b02f9904127780c68db9b451a7dfcf02a6fc5e 100644
 --- a/src/node_builtins.cc
 +++ b/src/node_builtins.cc
-@@ -397,6 +397,22 @@ MaybeLocal<Function> BuiltinLoader::LookupAndCompile(
+@@ -438,6 +438,22 @@ MaybeLocal<Function> BuiltinLoader::LookupAndCompile(
    return maybe;
  }
  
@@ -37,10 +37,10 @@ index 3bc9d113b6b818dcda332966f09f17248b421263..549339b5b677fa242a7b60ae716789c2
    BuiltinLoader* loader = GetInstance();
    std::vector<std::string> ids = loader->GetBuiltinIds();
 diff --git a/src/node_builtins.h b/src/node_builtins.h
-index 7f0a25af306ffefbc51ac43689ed208d4cd94f0b..a32a7a990082ea3dad73511f91a9c70c72f6fe31 100644
+index 8228e57d27b2f883d87ec12274f2745628caa6e1..b07c34a6d247a050f4f307940c9e157fb14d6166 100644
 --- a/src/node_builtins.h
 +++ b/src/node_builtins.h
-@@ -49,6 +49,11 @@ class NODE_EXTERN_PRIVATE BuiltinLoader {
+@@ -53,6 +53,11 @@ class NODE_EXTERN_PRIVATE BuiltinLoader {
        v8::Local<v8::Context> context,
        const char* id,
        Environment* optional_env);