chore: bump node to v18.13.0 (main) (#36818)

* chore: bump node in DEPS to v18.13.0

* child_process: validate arguments for null bytes

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/44782

* bootstrap: merge main thread and worker thread initializations

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/44869

* module: ensure relative requires work from deleted directories

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/42384

* src: add support for externally shared js builtins

https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/44000

* lib: disambiguate `native module` to `binding`

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45673

* test: convert test-debugger-pid to async/await

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45179

* deps: upgrade to libuv 1.44.2

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/42340

* src: fix cppgc incompatibility in v8

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/43521

* src: use qualified `std::move` call in node_http2

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45555

* build: fix env.h for cpp20

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45516

* test: remove experimental-wasm-threads flag

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45074

* src: iwyu in cleanup_queue.cc

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/44983

* src: add missing include for `std::all_of`

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45541

* deps: update ICU to 72.1

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45068

* chore: fixup patch indices

* chore: remove errant semicolons

- https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/44179
- https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/44193

* src: add support for externally shared js builtins

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/44376

* chore: add missing GN filenames

* deps: update nghttp2 to 1.51.0

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45537

* chore: disable more Node.js snapshot tests

The Snapshot feature is currently disabled

* chore: disable ICU timezone tests

Node.js uses a different version of ICU than Electron so they
will often be out of sync.

* chore: disable threadpool event tracing test

Event tracing is not enabled in embedded Node.js

* chore: fixup patch indices

* chore: comments from review

Co-authored-by: electron-roller[bot] <84116207+electron-roller[bot]@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: Shelley Vohr <shelley.vohr@gmail.com>

patches/node/feat_initialize_asar_support.patch

@@ -5,34 +5,13 @@ Subject: feat: initialize asar support
 
 This patch initializes asar support in Node.js.
 
-diff --git a/lib/internal/main/worker_thread.js b/lib/internal/main/worker_thread.js
-index f7ead4084ed4ed6a682bc62e7ad6fc350381d3b9..cd9ca227b9cac4ff021ce1643000ea4b45163df6 100644
---- a/lib/internal/main/worker_thread.js
-+++ b/lib/internal/main/worker_thread.js
-@@ -31,6 +31,7 @@ const {
-   initializeReport,
-   initializeSourceMapsHandlers,
-   loadPreloadModules,
-+  setupAsarSupport,
-   setupTraceCategoryState,
-   markBootstrapComplete
- } = require('internal/process/pre_execution');
-@@ -164,6 +165,8 @@ port.on('message', (message) => {
-     };
-     workerIo.sharedCwdCounter = cwdCounter;
- 
-+    setupAsarSupport();
-+
-     const CJSLoader = require('internal/modules/cjs/loader');
-     assert(!CJSLoader.hasLoadedAnyUserCJSModule);
-     loadPreloadModules();
 diff --git a/lib/internal/process/pre_execution.js b/lib/internal/process/pre_execution.js
-index 23d4dbcf6cd8e1e3e4a509672e203323d81e736c..db8bf724af5f113c7c86350a210d5eee82879d13 100644
+index 73ccca1c6c9d4da7600e216fd53eec82426d892d..1c529f062cd3ec79643ae8c946e2ed0faac336fb 100644
 --- a/lib/internal/process/pre_execution.js
 +++ b/lib/internal/process/pre_execution.js
-@@ -103,12 +103,17 @@ function prepareMainThreadExecution(expandArgv1 = false,
-   assert(!CJSLoader.hasLoadedAnyUserCJSModule);
+@@ -125,12 +125,17 @@ function setupUserModules() {
    loadPreloadModules();
+   // Need to be done after --require setup.
    initializeFrozenIntrinsics();
 +  setupAsarSupport();
  }
@@ -48,11 +27,3 @@ index 23d4dbcf6cd8e1e3e4a509672e203323d81e736c..db8bf724af5f113c7c86350a210d5eee
  function patchProcessObject(expandArgv1) {
    const binding = internalBinding('process_methods');
    binding.patchProcessObject(process);
-@@ -620,6 +625,7 @@ module.exports = {
-   loadPreloadModules,
-   setupTraceCategoryState,
-   setupInspectorHooks,
-+  setupAsarSupport,
-   initializeReport,
-   initializeCJSLoader,
-   initializeWASI,