chore: bump node to v18.13.0 (main) (#36818)

* chore: bump node in DEPS to v18.13.0

* child_process: validate arguments for null bytes

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/44782

* bootstrap: merge main thread and worker thread initializations

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/44869

* module: ensure relative requires work from deleted directories

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/42384

* src: add support for externally shared js builtins

https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/44000

* lib: disambiguate `native module` to `binding`

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45673

* test: convert test-debugger-pid to async/await

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45179

* deps: upgrade to libuv 1.44.2

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/42340

* src: fix cppgc incompatibility in v8

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/43521

* src: use qualified `std::move` call in node_http2

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45555

* build: fix env.h for cpp20

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45516

* test: remove experimental-wasm-threads flag

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45074

* src: iwyu in cleanup_queue.cc

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/44983

* src: add missing include for `std::all_of`

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45541

* deps: update ICU to 72.1

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45068

* chore: fixup patch indices

* chore: remove errant semicolons

- https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/44179
- https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/44193

* src: add support for externally shared js builtins

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/44376

* chore: add missing GN filenames

* deps: update nghttp2 to 1.51.0

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45537

* chore: disable more Node.js snapshot tests

The Snapshot feature is currently disabled

* chore: disable ICU timezone tests

Node.js uses a different version of ICU than Electron so they
will often be out of sync.

* chore: disable threadpool event tracing test

Event tracing is not enabled in embedded Node.js

* chore: fixup patch indices

* chore: comments from review

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patches/node/expose_get_builtin_module_function.patch

@@ -9,7 +9,7 @@ modules to sandboxed renderers.
 TODO(codebytere): remove and replace with a public facing API.
 
 diff --git a/src/node_binding.cc b/src/node_binding.cc
-index 06af1841eb3d102a6883ae1a8ab69fee4791be6b..14b447c2245a2154399b89f15aa33288c194d4fc 100644
+index a7a325e591eba3daf80bebb11fc3cd83891b627d..c4e6347f6f302b46fe4569f543335e426cd4ded5 100644
 --- a/src/node_binding.cc
 +++ b/src/node_binding.cc
 @@ -608,6 +608,10 @@ void GetInternalBinding(const FunctionCallbackInfo<Value>& args) {