chore: bump node to v18.13.0 (main) (#36818)

* chore: bump node in DEPS to v18.13.0

* child_process: validate arguments for null bytes

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/44782

* bootstrap: merge main thread and worker thread initializations

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/44869

* module: ensure relative requires work from deleted directories

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/42384

* src: add support for externally shared js builtins

https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/44000

* lib: disambiguate `native module` to `binding`

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45673

* test: convert test-debugger-pid to async/await

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45179

* deps: upgrade to libuv 1.44.2

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/42340

* src: fix cppgc incompatibility in v8

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/43521

* src: use qualified `std::move` call in node_http2

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45555

* build: fix env.h for cpp20

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45516

* test: remove experimental-wasm-threads flag

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45074

* src: iwyu in cleanup_queue.cc

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/44983

* src: add missing include for `std::all_of`

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45541

* deps: update ICU to 72.1

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45068

* chore: fixup patch indices

* chore: remove errant semicolons

- https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/44179
- https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/44193

* src: add support for externally shared js builtins

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/44376

* chore: add missing GN filenames

* deps: update nghttp2 to 1.51.0

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45537

* chore: disable more Node.js snapshot tests

The Snapshot feature is currently disabled

* chore: disable ICU timezone tests

Node.js uses a different version of ICU than Electron so they
will often be out of sync.

* chore: disable threadpool event tracing test

Event tracing is not enabled in embedded Node.js

* chore: fixup patch indices

* chore: comments from review

Co-authored-by: electron-roller[bot] <84116207+electron-roller[bot]@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: Shelley Vohr <shelley.vohr@gmail.com>

patches/node/enable_crashpad_linux_node_processes.patch

@@ -8,10 +8,10 @@ to child processes spawned with `ELECTRON_RUN_AS_NODE` which is used
 by the crashpad client to connect with the handler process.
 
 diff --git a/lib/child_process.js b/lib/child_process.js
-index 73c1dc769542865bdf7a2a03c16cef141d3f4b05..76151c75ef7ad420d2642c1cd11c8624b7d7e2a0 100644
+index 1bc5f92181a48e1ee37e59220ad11a755b20c9f4..d9d6a39f113151a489a3521ca8512f8ea5b1843c 100644
 --- a/lib/child_process.js
 +++ b/lib/child_process.js
-@@ -59,6 +59,7 @@ let debug = require('internal/util/debuglog').debuglog(
+@@ -60,6 +60,7 @@ let debug = require('internal/util/debuglog').debuglog(
  );
  const { Buffer } = require('buffer');
  const { Pipe, constants: PipeConstants } = internalBinding('pipe_wrap');
@@ -19,7 +19,7 @@ index 73c1dc769542865bdf7a2a03c16cef141d3f4b05..76151c75ef7ad420d2642c1cd11c8624
  
  const {
    AbortError,
-@@ -159,7 +160,6 @@ function fork(modulePath, args = [], options) {
+@@ -163,7 +164,6 @@ function fork(modulePath, args = [], options) {
        ArrayPrototypeSplice(execArgv, index - 1, 2);
      }
    }
@@ -27,7 +27,7 @@ index 73c1dc769542865bdf7a2a03c16cef141d3f4b05..76151c75ef7ad420d2642c1cd11c8624
    args = [...execArgv, modulePath, ...args];
  
    if (typeof options.stdio === 'string') {
-@@ -613,6 +613,21 @@ function normalizeSpawnArguments(file, args, options) {
+@@ -625,6 +625,21 @@ function normalizeSpawnArguments(file, args, options) {
                      'options.windowsVerbatimArguments');
    }
  
@@ -47,5 +47,5 @@ index 73c1dc769542865bdf7a2a03c16cef141d3f4b05..76151c75ef7ad420d2642c1cd11c8624
 +  }
 +
    if (options.shell) {
+     validateArgumentNullCheck(options.shell, 'options.shell');
      const command = ArrayPrototypeJoin([file, ...args], ' ');
-     // Set the shell, switches, and commands.