chore: bump node to v18.13.0 (main) (#36818)

* chore: bump node in DEPS to v18.13.0

* child_process: validate arguments for null bytes

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/44782

* bootstrap: merge main thread and worker thread initializations

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/44869

* module: ensure relative requires work from deleted directories

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/42384

* src: add support for externally shared js builtins

https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/44000

* lib: disambiguate `native module` to `binding`

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45673

* test: convert test-debugger-pid to async/await

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45179

* deps: upgrade to libuv 1.44.2

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/42340

* src: fix cppgc incompatibility in v8

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/43521

* src: use qualified `std::move` call in node_http2

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45555

* build: fix env.h for cpp20

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45516

* test: remove experimental-wasm-threads flag

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45074

* src: iwyu in cleanup_queue.cc

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/44983

* src: add missing include for `std::all_of`

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45541

* deps: update ICU to 72.1

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45068

* chore: fixup patch indices

* chore: remove errant semicolons

- https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/44179
- https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/44193

* src: add support for externally shared js builtins

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/44376

* chore: add missing GN filenames

* deps: update nghttp2 to 1.51.0

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45537

* chore: disable more Node.js snapshot tests

The Snapshot feature is currently disabled

* chore: disable ICU timezone tests

Node.js uses a different version of ICU than Electron so they
will often be out of sync.

* chore: disable threadpool event tracing test

Event tracing is not enabled in embedded Node.js

* chore: fixup patch indices

* chore: comments from review

Co-authored-by: electron-roller[bot] <84116207+electron-roller[bot]@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: Shelley Vohr <shelley.vohr@gmail.com>

patches/node/allow_embedder_to_control_codegenerationfromstringscallback.patch

@@ -8,10 +8,10 @@ This is needed to blend Blink and Node's code generation policy.
 This should be upstreamed.
 
 diff --git a/src/api/environment.cc b/src/api/environment.cc
-index b6981c37d5b286e22f24d11751eb05f72ca27619..c4a3a54753767e7686a0e32996bcda0c90f659a7 100644
+index c0c422e969543dcd570dabfd8ff0755abe37face..4f14b308d14f3653c8646345a5b375014a51851f 100644
 --- a/src/api/environment.cc
 +++ b/src/api/environment.cc
-@@ -259,11 +259,15 @@ void SetIsolateErrorHandlers(v8::Isolate* isolate, const IsolateSettings& s) {
+@@ -267,11 +267,15 @@ void SetIsolateErrorHandlers(v8::Isolate* isolate, const IsolateSettings& s) {
  void SetIsolateMiscHandlers(v8::Isolate* isolate, const IsolateSettings& s) {
    isolate->SetMicrotasksPolicy(s.policy);
  
@@ -30,10 +30,10 @@ index b6981c37d5b286e22f24d11751eb05f72ca27619..c4a3a54753767e7686a0e32996bcda0c
    Mutex::ScopedLock lock(node::per_process::cli_options_mutex);
    if (per_process::cli_options->get_per_isolate_options()
 diff --git a/src/node.h b/src/node.h
-index bee494f9da8470530ee9ec58958f8f2c7ce6a302..387ce8e5edf6524db170e2d46ef501a1cd956d98 100644
+index 6ff7527d4fe4d126bda80615ffed75f77f700b86..5a849f047feca5d4d101c21c125e1c0500150077 100644
 --- a/src/node.h
 +++ b/src/node.h
-@@ -461,6 +461,8 @@ struct IsolateSettings {
+@@ -463,6 +463,8 @@ struct IsolateSettings {
    v8::PromiseRejectCallback promise_reject_callback = nullptr;
    v8::AllowWasmCodeGenerationCallback
        allow_wasm_code_generation_callback = nullptr;