chore: bump node to v18.18.0 (main) (#39915)

* chore: bump node in DEPS to v18.18.0

* child_process: harden against prototype pollution

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/48726

* deps: upgrade to libuv 1.46.0

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/49591

* module: reduce url invocations in esm/load.js

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/48337

* Revert "test: remove test-crypto-keygen flaky designation"

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/48652

* fix: FTBTFS in ada dep

https://github.com/ada-url/ada/pull/464
https://github.com/ada-url/idna/pull/31

* fix: force_colors snapshot line number

* chore: fixup patch indices

* chore: update filenames.json

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patches/node/support_v8_sandboxed_pointers.patch

@@ -26,7 +26,7 @@ index 7ef6d04794c31064c70dbbb0bfc1dd7bf4d1b8fc..d5a03d5e10faaa204b3f9f290fed79be
    void* ret;
    if (zero_fill_field_ || per_process::cli_options->zero_fill_all_buffers)
 diff --git a/src/crypto/crypto_util.cc b/src/crypto/crypto_util.cc
-index 4d79fbb4a30a7e57a7456413685706d9af36b1b3..13e4d8b532cdb4c39fab30a8f4118ff8d2bca33c 100644
+index 2302e3bad99625eb5dd5587218d0a1985837fb8e..1aa2aafafdae1d2a1b2c851db59e3d736fb8bd3e 100644
 --- a/src/crypto/crypto_util.cc
 +++ b/src/crypto/crypto_util.cc
 @@ -349,10 +349,35 @@ ByteSource& ByteSource::operator=(ByteSource&& other) noexcept {