chore: bump node to v18.18.0 (main) (#39915)

* chore: bump node in DEPS to v18.18.0

* child_process: harden against prototype pollution

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/48726

* deps: upgrade to libuv 1.46.0

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/49591

* module: reduce url invocations in esm/load.js

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/48337

* Revert "test: remove test-crypto-keygen flaky designation"

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/48652

* fix: FTBTFS in ada dep

https://github.com/ada-url/ada/pull/464
https://github.com/ada-url/idna/pull/31

* fix: force_colors snapshot line number

* chore: fixup patch indices

* chore: update filenames.json

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patches/node/fix_suppress_clang_-wdeprecated-declarations_in_libuv.patch

@@ -6,10 +6,10 @@ Subject: fix: suppress clang -Wdeprecated-declarations in libuv
 Should be upstreamed.
 
 diff --git a/deps/uv/src/win/util.c b/deps/uv/src/win/util.c
-index 99432053cc3b242e514268b7aba2e2d83a9e64f2..750a5424953aad104ba1e865fefd55d316485917 100644
+index f6ec79cd57b5010ed5fd6829d952bcdacc8b7671..5cda078a55f7825d135a107fa98e1aa3527dd147 100644
 --- a/deps/uv/src/win/util.c
 +++ b/deps/uv/src/win/util.c
-@@ -1743,10 +1743,17 @@ int uv_os_uname(uv_utsname_t* buffer) {
+@@ -1685,10 +1685,17 @@ int uv_os_uname(uv_utsname_t* buffer) {
      #ifdef _MSC_VER
      #pragma warning(suppress : 4996)
      #endif