chore: bump node to v18.18.0 (main) (#39915)

* chore: bump node in DEPS to v18.18.0

* child_process: harden against prototype pollution

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/48726

* deps: upgrade to libuv 1.46.0

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/49591

* module: reduce url invocations in esm/load.js

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/48337

* Revert "test: remove test-crypto-keygen flaky designation"

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/48652

* fix: FTBTFS in ada dep

https://github.com/ada-url/ada/pull/464
https://github.com/ada-url/idna/pull/31

* fix: force_colors snapshot line number

* chore: fixup patch indices

* chore: update filenames.json

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patches/node/fix_expose_lookupandcompile_with_parameters.patch

@@ -10,7 +10,7 @@ parameters.
 This should be upstreamed.
 
 diff --git a/src/node_builtins.cc b/src/node_builtins.cc
-index 522670ed5c9951c506dcdf2745585552ad2a081f..12ea7cdabb16a7f4ea350bdf1cd5d073e035fda1 100644
+index 4d4b59916bfdb203702c4e878ff2659b79de8c52..6451464c9fb411a1988bada86eabb4071ee07eb0 100644
 --- a/src/node_builtins.cc
 +++ b/src/node_builtins.cc
 @@ -435,6 +435,22 @@ MaybeLocal<Function> BuiltinLoader::LookupAndCompile(