chore: bump node to v18.18.0 (main) (#39915)

* chore: bump node in DEPS to v18.18.0

* child_process: harden against prototype pollution

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/48726

* deps: upgrade to libuv 1.46.0

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/49591

* module: reduce url invocations in esm/load.js

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/48337

* Revert "test: remove test-crypto-keygen flaky designation"

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/48652

* fix: FTBTFS in ada dep

https://github.com/ada-url/ada/pull/464
https://github.com/ada-url/idna/pull/31

* fix: force_colors snapshot line number

* chore: fixup patch indices

* chore: update filenames.json

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patches/node/fix_do_not_resolve_electron_entrypoints.patch

@@ -6,7 +6,7 @@ Subject: fix: do not resolve electron entrypoints
 This wastes fs cycles and can result in strange behavior if this path actually exists on disk
 
 diff --git a/lib/internal/modules/run_main.js b/lib/internal/modules/run_main.js
-index 5a50d5d6afab6e6648f72a1c0efa1df4cd80bcd9..ebc9999358ccf16689dc02322eb1aeb86355f39b 100644
+index daaa153516c424334c18b5dfa35e0e55e1fbcce4..6181cc21bf303c41ed9c65681a34f6393223fb67 100644
 --- a/lib/internal/modules/run_main.js
 +++ b/lib/internal/modules/run_main.js
 @@ -3,6 +3,7 @@