chore: bump node to v18.18.0 (main) (#39915)

* chore: bump node in DEPS to v18.18.0

* child_process: harden against prototype pollution

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/48726

* deps: upgrade to libuv 1.46.0

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/49591

* module: reduce url invocations in esm/load.js

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/48337

* Revert "test: remove test-crypto-keygen flaky designation"

https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/48652

* fix: FTBTFS in ada dep

https://github.com/ada-url/ada/pull/464
https://github.com/ada-url/idna/pull/31

* fix: force_colors snapshot line number

* chore: fixup patch indices

* chore: update filenames.json

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patches/node/fix_-wshadow_warning.patch

@@ -28,7 +28,7 @@ In file included from ../../third_party/electron_node/src/env-inl.h:32:
 1 error generated.
 
 diff --git a/src/util.h b/src/util.h
-index a50d92601bf0ac278fa4137e056d5172a7589358..d18c263ae73d6181f07097bfcb1e4ef6f2e27e5e 100644
+index e218d9b62a1eb52404e3a57b999784e8e2f5ad58..22f2272c1bd4363be10a552748f63cbffba5c66d 100644
 --- a/src/util.h
 +++ b/src/util.h
 @@ -129,10 +129,10 @@ void DumpBacktrace(FILE* fp);