feat: add signal option to dialog.showMessageBox (#26102)

* mac: add dialog.closeMessageBox API

* win: Implement dialog.closeMessageBox

* mac: Return cancelId with closeMessageBox

* gtk: Implement dialog.closeMessageBox

* win: Fix 32bit build

* win: Reduce the scope of lock

* fix: Build error after rebase

* feat: Use AbortSignal to close message box

* chore: silently handle duplicate ID

* win: Add more notes about the threads

* chore: apply reviews

* fix: base::NoDestructor should be warpped in function

* chore: fix style on windows

docs/api/dialog.md

@@ -273,6 +273,11 @@ If `browserWindow` is not shown dialog will not be attached to it. In such case
     will result in one button labeled "OK".
   * `defaultId` Integer (optional) - Index of the button in the buttons array which will
     be selected by default when the message box opens.
+  * `signal` AbortSignal (optional) - Pass an instance of [AbortSignal][] to
+    optionally close the message box, the message box will behave as if it was
+    cancelled by the user. On macOS, `signal` does not work with message boxes
+    that do not have a parent window, since those message boxes run
+    synchronously due to platform limitations.
   * `title` String (optional) - Title of the message box, some platforms will not show it.
   * `detail` String (optional) - Extra information of the message.
   * `checkboxLabel` String (optional) - If provided, the message box will
@@ -360,3 +365,5 @@ window is provided.
 
 You can call `BrowserWindow.getCurrentWindow().setSheetOffset(offset)` to change
 the offset from the window frame where sheets are attached.
+
+[AbortSignal]: https://nodejs.org/api/globals.html#globals_class_abortsignal